Sunday, September 23, 2012

The 47% Up Close and Personal


                I opened the door with some hesitation.  I was greeted with a smile and a good word – “Would you like your room freshened up?”  The hotel employee – often called maid – was trying to make my stay comfortable and pleasant.  I spoke with her for a few moments.  She was married and her husband was a construction worker.  She had two children – one was in a subsidized pre-school and the other was a first grader.  She worked hard and took pride in changing and making beds, emptying waste baskets, vacuuming rugs, putting on new rolls of toilet paper and handling dirty towels.  She was one face of the 47%.

                The distinctive aroma of convalescent home filled my nostrils as I into walked to Bill’s room.  Bill was a retired school teacher who had educated our children and paid his local, state and federal taxes faithfully.  It seems that the health care costs of first his deceased wife and now his own had consumed all his assets.  He was receiving something that to him was an embarrassment – Medicaid.  He would never complain about healthcare costs and would only say that he had lived too long. He never saw himself as a victim.   He had done so much in giving meaning to so many young lives yet now he saw his life as meaningless.  He was one of the largest group (the aging) of the 47%.

                He was neatly stacking the cereal boxes on the shelf.  I had asked him where to find my gluten free Rice Chex.  He pointed to a shelf about a 1/3 of the way down the aisle from him.  I made some comment about his geographic knowledge of the store.  My words apparently opened a stream of pain.  He was quick to tell me that he wasn’t really a super market shelf expert but rather a laid off marketing “guy.”  He did feel he was a victim of a false economy that led to the major recession that took his job.  “Just trying to feed my family until a job it my field comes along.  It took a long time for the bottom to drop out.  I’m afraid it will take a long time until things get straight again.”  His broken soul was easily seen.  He was one of the 47%.

                He sat in my office with a glazy stare.  He was asking for financial assistance, surely a church in Greenwich could afford a few hundred dollars to help his family through tough times.  His story could have been the story of hundreds of Iraq War veterans.  Let’s try post traumatic stress syndrome.  He was on veteran’s assistance but he couldn’t make ends meet.  He had served proudly and put his life at risk for his country.  He was one of the 47%. 

                Some of the 47% are takers – a very small minority.  Most wish they could pay federal taxes because their incomes would then be high enough to live the American dream – maybe even make a six-digit salary.  But who then would clean the rooms and stock the shelves and sit in long term care facilities feeling embarrassed that life had come to this because of healthcare costs?

Blessed are the poor in spirit because they are humble enough to know that they need to do everything possible to bless the poor.

In Christ,    Bob

P.S. It might be interesting to check out the small percentage who are taking advantage of the system – some may look like the incorrect but classic stereotype.  Yet an equal number might look like high rollers who “massage” the lucrative tax breaks they receive.    

P.S. S. About 20,000 households who made over $500,000 are part of the 47%.  How come I pay more than 13% in federal taxes and don’t make 1/5 of those 47%.  I guess I need a better tax accountant.

Thursday, September 13, 2012


 What to Do When Our Values Aren’t Working for Us!

“Blue skies up above, everyone’s in love…..”  These idyllic words from the light jazz song “Up a Lazy River” seems to be the antithesis of what is the reality for Americans when the date 9/11 arrives on the calendar.   9/11/01 – Hatred raises its ugly head in the heinous atrocity at the World Trade Center.  9/11/12 – Hatred leaves four Americans dead at the American Embassy in Libya and diplomats under siege in Cairo!  There were blues skies up above and not everyone was in love.  And one major catalyst for the loveless tragedies of 9/11/12 is our American values.  We hold as a beacon for all to see our “freedom of speech and assembly!” - even for American-Israeli nuts who use the internet for broadcasting  a hate filled - religion degrading film that could be construed as attack on the faith of a significant faith group in the world.  If the reaction to the gone viral film vignette were not such a tragedy some Americans might possibly say:  “I don’t agree with his opinion but he has a right to say it!  That’s freedom of speech!  That’s what democracy is all about! “  And then we have democracy Arab Spring style.  We sympathize with “those longing to be free” until we realize that those whom we expected to govern rather turn out to be those that we did not expect to govern.  And what is even more disquieting is that some zealous nuts – a miniscule minority – feel  their right to free speech and assembly  includes climbing walls, burning flags, and killing good people.  Freedom of speech, the internet, a nut and a group of nuts – that’s a formula for disaster.

What do we do when our values aren’t working for us?  What do we do when democracy rears its head in the ugliest of forms?  We can theorize about what is happening is not what true democracy is all about!  We can condemn the nuts for their misinterpretation of democracy.  But then they retaliate by reminding us of the violence we have been a party to throughout our history.  Or we can further cast a wider net in demonizing all people who have a similar racial, cultural, or religious hue to the few nuts who perpetrated these acts of hatred and violence.  Or we can go angry and speak and post vindictive tirades that make us look as inhuman and nutty as those who have proven themselves insane by the atrocities they have committed. 

Then again as Americans and people of faith maybe all we can do is:

·         Model out love through praying for those who persecute us

·         Model out responsible democracy by praying for those who lead realizing there are no easy answers to the complexities of getting this thing called democracy right

·         Accept the fact that human sin – even in us – will sometimes rear its ugly head and we are almost helpless to do anything to halt it

·         Live out the basic principles of our faith – justice led by and tempered by love / non-violence in word and deed

·         Remember that our small actions can cause collateral damage – so pray and think about the larger good before acting

·         Avoid defining the many by the actions of a few

·         Respond to hatred with words that unite us as a nation and not divide us

·         But in the end all we can do is pray for those whose lives are impacted by the tragedies brought on by nuts who fail to understand that with democracy comes personal responsibility

Our values got the best of us this time, but let us not give up on them!

Bob Naylor (9/12/2012)