Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Teaching Friendship



I received a called today to substitute teach at a private school.  I don’t do it for the money.  However it does pay for a nice dinner out with the woman who has put up with me for over forty years.  (I understand she is being considered for canonization!).  I teach because I love being with energetic and inquisitive young adults.  I have taught everything from pre-calc to creative writing to all sorts of government and history courses to statistics.  The latest venture was with an “English as a Second Language” class for students who are involved in full time athletic training programs for golf and tennis.  They are aiming to be professionals in their sports.  One Thai, one Korean, one Mexican and five Japanese students sat before an English and slightly Spanish fluent teacher – me.  The first question left for my use was:  “In English and in three sentences write why this class is important for you?”  Following a time of writing I asked each student to read in English their answers.  Two mentioned going to an American college as their reason for learning English.  Two were quite honest in saying it will help in pursuing a career that could be financially lucrative (I think they used the good old English word “money.”).  The remaining threes answers lightened my heart.  Without consulting each other on their answers they said “It will help us make friends.”  Following a teacher assigned test, I did some of my own lesson planning.  My new lesson plan was -In English, let’s tell each other about why you like the sport you play and what friendship means.  There were smiles and good laughter as each person in the room answered the question.  (I tried my Spanish and asked other students how I would say certain things in their language)  In spite of our ethnic and cultural differences we learned that we shared many of the same hopes and dreams.

15 I do not call you servants[a] any longer, because the servant[b] does not know what the master is doing; but I have called you friends, because I have made known to you everything that I have heard from my Father. 16 You did not choose me but I chose you. And I appointed you to go and bear fruit, fruit that will last, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask him in my name. 17 I am giving you these commands so that you may love one another.  (John 15:15-17)

Somehow in that classroom ethnicity and faith differences disappeared and we became friends.  Who would have ever pre-calculated that?  In God’s classroom, the world, let us become astute and energetic in our efforts to show others what the Teacher from Nazareth has taught us about being friends. 

In Christ and now preparing for (Just received the call!) teaching a history class on the Civil War!  (Not a good historical example of friendship!),

Bob